Dec
20
2012
Newton, Connecticut Tragedy: Statement by the Association for Conflict Resolution
Author: Lee Jay BermanDecember 20, 2012
The membership of the Association for Conflict Resolution mourns the tragedy in Newtown, Connecticut, along with all those shaken by it across the United States and around the world. We and many of our other colleagues stand ready to lend the full range of our professional expertise and devotion to processes that support healing, as well as those sustained efforts that will be required to facilitate dialogue, build consensus, and take action to address the deep rooted structural issues that contribute to this tragic pattern. Our membership includes thousands of dedicated and seasoned conflict resolution practitioners with a variety of specializations committed to the work that lies ahead.
Many ACR members, particularly those who are mediators, are also following a developing side story relevant to our field. News reports have disclosed some details of the mediated divorce of the perpetrator’s parents and provided comments alleged to have come from the couple’s mediator. ACR would like to make clear to the public that confidentiality is one of the basic principles of mediation, and that any mediator belonging to an organization, such as ACR, which has approved the Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators, is bound by that standard of confidentiality (http://www.acrnet.org/Educator.aspx?id=971). In addition, ACR endorses both the ACR Ethical Principles and the Model Standards of Practice for Family and Divorce Mediators which state “A family mediator shall maintain the confidentiality of all information acquired in the mediation process, unless the mediator is permitted or required to reveal the information by law or agreement of the participants.”
Each year in the United States, there are thousands of divorcing couples who choose to work together in mediation to find an outcome that is mutually satisfactory. ACR is committed to seeing that they and all mediation clients can be assured that they are protected from breach of confidentiality except where permitted by law or agreement of the parties.
ACR leadership and members continue to offer whatever support and care we can to the community of Newtown, the surrounding area, and the affected families, for whom we grieve.
Association for Conflict Resolution
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www.acrnet.org
Tags: ACR, association, confidentiality, conflict, Connecticut, divorce, Mediation, mediators, Newton, privacy, resolution
December 23rd, 2012 at 6:10 am
Thanks for posting this statement. When I read the article, I was shocked and curious. Glad I am not alone in holding the value of confidentiality with special care.
January 14th, 2013 at 7:56 am
Dear Lee Jay:
On top of your game and doing good deeds for society, as always.
I would like to think you and your network of conflict-resolving associates could add some logic and common sense to the debacle that is gun ownership and gun control in America, but I fear that the situation is closer to family law than you might imagine. It is a 320,000,000 person divorce, and the ex’s will be forced to live together. even after the divorce.
By the way, do you ever sleep? Or have you discovered cloning? Your list of websites, blogs, articles, and social media stuff that keeps you busy is staggering to those dinosaurs that inhabit planet Earth. Go get ’em!
MC