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		<title>Comment on Your Patience (with the Arab World) Is a Virtue by Lee Jay Berman</title>
		<link>http://eyeonconflict.com/2012/02/01/your-patience-with-the-arab-world-is-a-virtue/comment-page-1/#comment-1141</link>
		<dc:creator>Lee Jay Berman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:59:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>.
Thanks Greg.  The same thing worked in the Camp David Peace Accords, but required a mediator in Jimmy Carter to see the underlying interests where they had common goals for a peaceful future.</description>
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Thanks Greg.  The same thing worked in the Camp David Peace Accords, but required a mediator in Jimmy Carter to see the underlying interests where they had common goals for a peaceful future.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Patience (with the Arab World) Is a Virtue by Lee Jay Berman</title>
		<link>http://eyeonconflict.com/2012/02/01/your-patience-with-the-arab-world-is-a-virtue/comment-page-1/#comment-1140</link>
		<dc:creator>Lee Jay Berman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>.
From Greg Stone via facebook:

As a fellow optimist I can imagine paths that lead to a positive outcome, though it is difficult to imagine anything similar to the unique Constitutional government of the U.S.

A challenge (set back) appears to have taken shape over the past couple months as the Muslim Brotherhood and the Salafists have been seated as a 70% or greater majority in the government. 

The Islamists appear to be more organized and well-funded than the forces of civil society, the coalition of youth and women and the Christian minority. 

Thus, there is at least the threat that one oppressive government has been replaced by another equally oppressive one. (The violence toward the Christian minority, as well as saber rattling toward Israel, seems to foreshadow looming oppression.) 

I agree teams of trained mediators should try to engage in dialogue that opens new paths. The faith-based diplomacy work of Brian Cox with the Muslim Brotherhood fits within this scenario... but it is difficult to be more than cautiously optimistic. 

Earlier events with a parallel theme played out with Saint Francis when he befriended the Sultan during the Middle Ages. The key to his success was his faith-based approach in which Francis&#039; concern was with the Sultan&#039;s salvation. 

The common bond that developed had to do with a shared eschatological optimism... they both looked to the world to come with a passion and vision not shared by others. Perhaps that is a lesson for our times. (?)</description>
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From Greg Stone via facebook:</p>
<p>As a fellow optimist I can imagine paths that lead to a positive outcome, though it is difficult to imagine anything similar to the unique Constitutional government of the U.S.</p>
<p>A challenge (set back) appears to have taken shape over the past couple months as the Muslim Brotherhood and the Salafists have been seated as a 70% or greater majority in the government. </p>
<p>The Islamists appear to be more organized and well-funded than the forces of civil society, the coalition of youth and women and the Christian minority. </p>
<p>Thus, there is at least the threat that one oppressive government has been replaced by another equally oppressive one. (The violence toward the Christian minority, as well as saber rattling toward Israel, seems to foreshadow looming oppression.) </p>
<p>I agree teams of trained mediators should try to engage in dialogue that opens new paths. The faith-based diplomacy work of Brian Cox with the Muslim Brotherhood fits within this scenario&#8230; but it is difficult to be more than cautiously optimistic. </p>
<p>Earlier events with a parallel theme played out with Saint Francis when he befriended the Sultan during the Middle Ages. The key to his success was his faith-based approach in which Francis&#8217; concern was with the Sultan&#8217;s salvation. </p>
<p>The common bond that developed had to do with a shared eschatological optimism&#8230; they both looked to the world to come with a passion and vision not shared by others. Perhaps that is a lesson for our times. (?)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Patience (with the Arab World) Is a Virtue by Lee Jay Berman</title>
		<link>http://eyeonconflict.com/2012/02/01/your-patience-with-the-arab-world-is-a-virtue/comment-page-1/#comment-1138</link>
		<dc:creator>Lee Jay Berman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:13:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>.
Thanks Greg,  The parallels seem obvious to me, people rising up and organizing to throw off oppressors and determine their own way. 

I&#039;m not sure there&#039;s one direction that&#039;s predetermined in any of those countries. I think they&#039;ll debate and arm wrestle and fight like our founding fathers did.

As for different variables, that&#039;s the point of my post - that those variables, including above all outside influences and living in a time with expectations of immediacy, are bringing to bear a time frame and demand that is simply impossible when they&#039;re just finished rising up together. The trick is whether they can hold off a new regime taking charge until they are able to go through a healthy process of dialogue. Nature does abhor a vacuum. I&#039;m an optimist, and I think that Doug Noll&#039;s Elusive Peace tells us that there should be teams of trained mediators in there managing the dialogue and helping to keep outside influences out while shaping the discussion within.</description>
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Thanks Greg,  The parallels seem obvious to me, people rising up and organizing to throw off oppressors and determine their own way. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure there&#8217;s one direction that&#8217;s predetermined in any of those countries. I think they&#8217;ll debate and arm wrestle and fight like our founding fathers did.</p>
<p>As for different variables, that&#8217;s the point of my post &#8211; that those variables, including above all outside influences and living in a time with expectations of immediacy, are bringing to bear a time frame and demand that is simply impossible when they&#8217;re just finished rising up together. The trick is whether they can hold off a new regime taking charge until they are able to go through a healthy process of dialogue. Nature does abhor a vacuum. I&#8217;m an optimist, and I think that Doug Noll&#8217;s Elusive Peace tells us that there should be teams of trained mediators in there managing the dialogue and helping to keep outside influences out while shaping the discussion within.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Patience (with the Arab World) Is a Virtue by Lee Jay Berman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lee Jay Berman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>.
From Greg Stone via Facebook:

In what ways do you feel there are parallels between those uprisings and the American move into a Constitutional Republic?

It would seem there already is an organization in those lands, and it is based upon an Islamic theocracy, which, when expanded, forms a new caliphate. 

Do you see any developments that might portend a different outcome? 

To the degree these uprisings were the product of hi tech media and social networking, including organization from external agents, do you think that puts different variables in play?</description>
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From Greg Stone via Facebook:</p>
<p>In what ways do you feel there are parallels between those uprisings and the American move into a Constitutional Republic?</p>
<p>It would seem there already is an organization in those lands, and it is based upon an Islamic theocracy, which, when expanded, forms a new caliphate. </p>
<p>Do you see any developments that might portend a different outcome? </p>
<p>To the degree these uprisings were the product of hi tech media and social networking, including organization from external agents, do you think that puts different variables in play?</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 21:14:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Thanks!&lt;/strong&gt;

Thanks for all your insight. This site has been really helpful to me.</description>
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<p>Thanks for all your insight. This site has been really helpful to me.</p>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Thumbs Up!&lt;/strong&gt;

Wonderful blog post, saw on someone&#039;s facebook page (Michael David?).  Glad I found you!</description>
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<p>Wonderful blog post, saw on someone&#8217;s facebook page (Michael David?).  Glad I found you!</p>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Looking around and look what I found!&lt;/strong&gt;

I like to surf in various places on the internet, often I will go out and stumble upon and follow new sites.  Yours is really unique!  I don&#039;t think anyone else out there is doing this.  I&#039;m going to promote your blog on my site.  Keep up that conflict resolution blogging!  The world needs 1000 of you!!</description>
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<p>I like to surf in various places on the internet, often I will go out and stumble upon and follow new sites.  Yours is really unique!  I don&#8217;t think anyone else out there is doing this.  I&#8217;m going to promote your blog on my site.  Keep up that conflict resolution blogging!  The world needs 1000 of you!!</p>
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		<dc:creator>marriage communication</dc:creator>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;marriage communication recommends Eye On Conflict&lt;/strong&gt;

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